People cheat for a wide range of reasons, and sometimes for no reason at all. Men would say that they are genetically wired to be polygamous and it does not take a lot to get them excited.
Women on the other hand are mostly expected to have staying power, be able to resist temptation when it comes , but that is not always the case. Women can be very discreet and hardly let anything slip up. The fact is that both members of the opposite sex do cheat; maybe not equally, the person that gets caught is a cheater.
Below are some of reasons why a woman would cheat on the one she is with:-
Nothing pisses a girl off more than her guy cheating on her. Even though women need to be emotionally connected to be able to have an intimate relationship, when they catch their guy cheating, they take a crash course on sex with emotional detachment. They will forgive you for cheating on them, but they will not forget and they will strike when you least expect it. Your girlfriend will get her revenge and your closest buddies are on her list.
Guys always dream of a threesome with their girlfriend’s sister, friends, cousins etc. For the guy it will mostly be a dream that will never come through. When a girl has such a dream, it could easily become reality when she is pissed. All she has to do is put the heat on ...and ask nicely.
She could decide not to tell you and spare you the agony of finding out what transpired, but have the satisfaction of knowing she has gotten her revenge. Or she could reap your heart out by giving you copyrights to the video, audio and full details of cheating on you and why, and then dumping you.
With one strike, she destroys your relationship with your cousin, best friend, brother; uncle, father or whoever she cheated on you with and leaves you pretty messed up. How to avoid this, do not cheat on her.
Fun things for couples to do together
Even though opposites attract, there should still be some similarities between couples, so that they can at least have something in common that they occasionally do together. This is very crucial in a relationship and when there are no common activities that could be enjoyed as a couple, it could lay the building blocks for the woman to cheat on the guy.
This is because guys when they are not interested in where their girl is going to, will always say “hey, why don’t you go without me. Have some fun with your friends, I’ll probably be in the way of all your girl talk." The guy is only thinking about the fun he is going to have with his girl out of the way, without thinking of the bigger picture.
When your girlfriend is all alone in the mall or on vacation visiting her parents or hanging out with friends, you are thinking good riddance, while there are guys saying, “hello opportunity.” If it’s a mall she visits frequently, a class she is taking or yoga, there will always be one overfriendly dude whose real intention is for access to her garden...your garden.
When people hear abuse, they always think of physical abuse. Oh nooo! mental abuse is a big part of it and it will drive your sweet girl into the hands of Romeo. This involves things like taking your girlfriend for granted. You show up late for dates, you do not make her top priority and don’t return her calls promptly. You generally have an excuse for things that clearly could have been avoided by you putting just a little thought into it.
Some women sometimes do not know that a woman could be treated better. They have always been involved with men that treat them anyhow. Some accept it as the way it should be since they do not know any better.
However, once in a while they meet an exciting and persistent guy that just would not give up. He would pursue her relentlessly, shower her with complements, gifts and conversation until he gets her guard down and he will show her the proper way women should be treated. Once the relationship gets serious with the new friend, your bum will be tossed to the curb side without any regret’s
As they say, “every thing that goes up must come down.” This is also true for the sparks in a relationship. It takes experience to know that to keep the sparks flying and the passion going you have to be proactive – now and then tossing a log into the fire to keep the flame going.
Married women interested in their relationship for the long haul are more committed to seeing their relationship survive a passionless relationship. They try to make it work and could go great lengths. This could involve staying in the marriage, but developing a discrete relationship on the side. For the non married woman in a relationship, there is no binding tie and when the excitement goes, finding another person to reignite the passion would only be a matter of time. Once the right person comes along, it is good bye to the current boyfriend. To keep your relationship going strong, be proactive, reignite the passion and ones in a while toss a log or two into the fire
Sometimes women already know that the relationship is doomed. They guy is perfect, they look good as a couple, but yet she doesn’t feel right. Most of the time, the guy is the kind of guy she would like to take to her parents,... marriage material they call it. The only problem is she is not ready to settle down yet. In her heart she wishes you guys have met 5 years later.
It could also be that the passion is out of the window in a relationship, you do not excite her anymore (maybe not your fault really) and she is ready for an adventure to explore other avenues. Well, she could just walk away and dump you, or try to disengage without hurting you badly. So they wait for an opportune time to breakup.
If there are any delays this might mean they would have to start doing the exploration while they are still in the relationship with you. They start to send out signals to the opposite sex that they are available; they flirt with male coworkers, hang out online on dating websites; hang out offline with friends at clubs and bars. Within a short time they are involved in a no string attached relationship, which she easily rationalizes as ok, since the breakup with you is imminent.
Without intending to, your girl has started to cheat on you without having developed an elaborate plan to do so, just a consequence of an opportune time for a soft breakup with a nice guy, not showing up on time.
Do long distance relationships work?
“Absence makes the heart wander.”
Most women make an effort to sustain their relationship and will stick to a partner no matter what, but starting a long distance relationship introduces a new dynamic to the equation and a level of opportunity women sometimes are not used to having. All of a sudden they have time on their hands and somehow, they just have to find something to do with that time.
The time they normally spend with you in the evenings or weekends becomes spare time. They might begin to hang out just to kill time. It normally starts out as an honest hanging out with friends going out for drinks. The facilitation could also be due to hanging out with friends who are single or not attached or friends who are already swinging, on the hunt or waiting to be taken. They flirt with guys and get hit on, and before your girl knows it, she is carried away with the moment and may find herself on Romeo’s bed.
It could be a one off affair and she will be more cautious when going out with friends or she could embrace it. Whether she tells you about that one night of adventure depends on how your relationship is set up. As the saying goes, what you don’t won’t hurt you. Long distance relationships is a major contributor on why women cheat.
Before you dump your girl for no obvious reason or break up with her, make sure your mind is made up. A woman that felt she was not treated well could engage in irrational behavior. A guy that lets his girl go unceremoniously and then discovers he can’t live without her and wants her back will definitely be cheated on down the road.
Most time the scenario unfolds like this, the distrust girl not feeling so great after the break up offers herself to any guy that shows any interest just to find out if she is so washed up that she can be dumped unceremoniously or if she is still hot. She confirms that she still has what it takes.
By the time she takes you back and accepts your apologies, she has learnt her lesson. She now has security, she has kept the best of the flings she had as security in case you change your mind; or just something else on the side while she explores her options for revenge. She has no regret’s at all, she believes that one has to look out for themselves and having a plan b and c is not bad at all.